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Thursday, 18 May 2017

Actresses Empress Njamah and Juliet Ibrahim disagree on domestic violence


Nollywood actresses,  Empress Njamah and Juliet Ibrahim have disagreed on domestic violence in marriages and relationships. 

Recently, reports of wife battery and high level violence on women, mostly female celebrities all over the media.

Most recently, was the case of actress, Mercy Aigbe whom, while sharing images of her battered face and bruised body, cried out that that her husband, Lanre Gentry nearly sent her to early grave.

But reacting to these incidents in a post she shared on her Instagram page, Empress Njamah noted that women themselves cause most of the violence on them.

She said women should also take part of the blame when it comes to domestic violence.

According to her, sometimes the women torment men mentally and added that women should learn to help men manage their anger.

She wrote:
 “There are men who are more beaten up emotionally than the women they beat up physically. Some women are headstrong and can traumatize their men mentally that they don’t know when they hit in anger.

“A man might have experienced one or two things growing up. These men need us to be supportive. Women should help these men control their anger.

“Stop getting advice from single women, don’t let them mislead you, instead read books…men are babies, they wanted to be treated like babies and that is why some go on to cheat when their wives are frustrating them.”
However, Juliet Ibrahim didn’t totally agree with her. The mum of one took to Instagram to pen down her own thoughts.



She wrote;
KARMA IS A B*%$h! When it comes barking up your own tree or in ur family; please preach ur wisdom that time… #whatApity and we call ourselves celebrities! When people decide to sit and form advisers they should think twice before talking honestly. What’s the meaning of “a man hits a woman it’s called domestic violence and when a woman hits a man it’s called what?” MADAM, it’s the same domestic violence either ways and what we have been preaching since day one is the fact that no one should get to the point of hitting another being in the name of anger or rage! Violence is WRONG! There is no excuse! Violence should NEVER EVER BE THE OPTION OR CHOICE!!! There is NO REASON IN THE WORLD FOR A MAN OR WOMAN TO GET PHYSICAL ON ANOTHER person!
Domestic Violence which is an abuse comes in several forms could be emotional or physical as well; sadly we do NOT SEE THE EMOTIONAL ABUSE ON MOST; what most people are preaching against lately is the fact that people can’t SEEM TO CONTROL ANGER AND GET OUT OF VIOLENT RELATIONSHIPS! No one is sitting around happy about victims ( both male and female) being attacked and killed brutally ; what we are standing firm against is the fact that We as humans need to see the signs and exit the relationship immediately we notice the signs or speak to the rightful authorities before it is Too Late! How dare you try to justify why another person will get physically violent on another till it leads to death or getting burnt! Are you even aware that RAPE IS also a form of violence? Would you sit in ur seat and preach that ladies that get raped are the ones bringing it upon themselves? Is that ur mindset? YOU WOULD BLAME A LADY FOR GETTING RAPED? Shouldn’t you be preaching against rape and violence in general rather than justifying the Act? Haven’t you seen photos of women who were murdered after being raped? Is it the woman’s fault that some guy couldn’t control his urge???? Would you also sit and advise that every one should pick up guns and go to war because they were offended by another country??? #sayNotodomesticviolence against women or men! We preach against it! VIOLENCE SHOULD NEVER BE THE END RESULT!



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